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Our Need to Be Liked & Approved Of

David Oromith · 34 minutes · recorded September 17, 2023

In the meditation on the sky-like nature of mind we watch thoughts arise and pass like clouds while resting in the clear, spacious awareness beneath them. David talks about our need to be liked and approved of, seen in social media validation, peer pressure and people-pleasing at work, and why tying self-worth to others' opinions is such shaky ground. He offers loving kindness towards ourselves, reflecting on impermanence and the Dalai Lama's reminder that we carry Buddha nature.

Attachment and craving Buddha nature Distraction and attention Impermanence The eight worldly concerns The nature of mind Work and daily life Loving kindness (metta)

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